Don't they say that the first step to fixing a problem is to admit that there is a problem to begin with?
If you say, you can't say there is a problem because you will hurt their feelings or you are being judgmental, then you are not admitting there is a problem. And the person with a problem will not see that there is anything wrong and they will not strive to change or become better.
Ignoring it or allowing it to happen is not admitting there is a problem.
And if the problem is harming that person or others then it means there really is a problem.
SO I am not following the logic when they say do not say that there is a problem, do not judge, do not hurt people's feelings.
Its just the only way people can learn to be better though....
Defies logic.
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