I think Italy is courting me.....

So one of my favorite patients came in today. The elder Italian lady and once again, she brought me home made lunch.
I think its home made pizza and veggie soup with orzo.

Her husband passed away about 2 years ago and she is still mourning him.
So very sad.
Today she said to me "When he was around you know, I felt STRONG. He would do things for me, like open the door, I miss that. I miss him."

You know, with all this womens independance movement (which I am thankful for in many ways) I still appreciate that whole idea of "being treated like a lady".
Chivalry.
Really............ its not something so grand and difficult, no slaying of the dragon or warding off enemies with a sword and suit of armour, no riding miles and miles on horseback through horrid weather to see me................. its just little thoughtful gestures to show they care. What a wonderful feeling to have when you know someone cares about you to think about your needs before theirs. Something that seems to be disappearing lately. Of course its a two way street as well. Im no Princess , or Queen that needs to be served hand and foot. Just gestures to show you care about each other. Simple. And should come naturally. And should not be demanded of the other.

Anyhow, how nice she described it that way : "I felt strong"


However, its not lunch yet and I feel weak... wanta give in and start eating this delicious food right now! Im supposed to be following this low carb diet. Damn, Im not gonna fit into my dress for that cocktail party tonight!