So get this.
Im Asian.
So Im short, Tiny, Petite, slim-ish. All the rest of those physical stereotypes that go with being Asian. Well, except maybe minus the shy-giggle-fits-with-my-hand-covering- my-mouth sort of thing.
So why is it do I get set ups with similar type guys?!?!?
Really? Is what I described above what you would call "manly". A man's man?
Date night was a bust.
Lets be honest, sometimes .... or most times ..... you can tell right away whether its a yay or nay. Great personalities are wonderful, and a blessing, great rappore even better.... but in basics.... there has to be some attraction there. Sure attraction can grow on ya like a fungus, but only in neutral situations is it possible. It isnt possible in blind date/ date/ set up situations.
Lets put it simply this way..... The other night I got together with my friends. One of the Mikes described how at his work, if there are just two guys sitting in a room, and a gal walks by... the convo between the guys is pretty simple, only two words ....
"Would ya?"
(yes yes sounds like a very piggish-guy thing to do, but play along with me now)
Sooooo I think that when setting up a fellow person with another person - that is all you have to ask yourself. "would ya?"
Dont think " well, they shouldnt be picky at this point, and they should just focus on personality"
Because.......... if "you wouldnt" ...............then why the *%&% would I?
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