good side bad side.

I shouldn't let it bug me that some people just send me the wrong vibe.

 

I mean, its just a "feeling" I get from them. 

But if given the chance, I just would rather not tolerate their presence. 

However, I guess in some cases, I gotta face what I gotta face and deal with it than avoid it right - thats how people grow, learn and become better. 

I should learn to get along with these folk that give me this bad "feeling". 

Ugh. To deal or not to deal.... that is the question. 

 

A friend of mine summarized this bad "feeling" I get from certain folk. 

The old saying :

"You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him."

- Malcolm S. Forbes.

That air of type-A "confidence" that cannot stand anyone "meeker" than them, is actually, not anything close to confidence at all, but shows their deepest insecurities. They are however, able to fool and gain the admiration of many others (the ones they choose to be nice to), with their outgoing, centre of attention personality..... 

I will not be duped. And hopefully I will be more self aware not to be that way either.