friend zone and falling ....

Gals view on the friend zone.
I think guys seem to worry about this more than gals.
I can see why. But I think I figured it out on my end.
There are all these things that tell guys how to not fall in that zone or prevent it.
I believe you cant prevent it.
If that is where you belong, you will eventually go there.
Sorry.
Sounds like a helpless situation?
No.
This also means, if you aren't meant for the friend zone, you will never end up there either.
Once in the zone you cant prevent it you cant turn back and you cant change their mind.
But if you are headed toward more than a friend, then you cant change that either.
Anyhow.......


Falling.
When you find yourself falling for someone, sometimes I think you just cant prevent that.
Kinda scary especially if you are with someone else.
But still scary because the instant you notice  you are, you suddenly feel less confidant, more vulnerable. You are almost saying you are giving them the  option of actually breaking your heart.