Quotes everywhere

So I'm also instagramming a lot lately.

I'm seeing all these quotes that say a similar thing ....

"Going through tough times, to get to a better place.... Yada yada yada"

I get it.

I do believe things happen for a reason.

I do believe people are in our lives or out of our lives for a reason.

I get it.

But seriously, wtf am I supposed to learn while I'm in it already.

Fine I'll just wait and wait for that answer and months or years from now I'll go "ahhh that's why I went through that shit hole... Wow now I All better in this better place"

Well, hunkydory. That's great ... For some  unknown time in the future!

What about now??? How long will this take?? How much more do I need to go through ?? 

Gaaaaah! So freakin impatient ! 

Why must lessons be so effin hard?